Showing posts with label Chinese Lantern Festival. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Chinese Lantern Festival. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 11, 2025

May Your Lives be as Full of Happiness as the Moon is Full in the Sky!

Ovidia--every other Tuesday

Happy First Full Moon of the year (Yuan Xiao Jie) Everyone!!



I'm sorry this is a day late, but the bright side (literally) is I get to write this on the fifteenth and last day of the Chinese New Year, which also marks the first full moon of the year.

I've come down with a nasty cold--suspect it's an unfortunate consequence of meeting up with too many people over the first week of the new year!

But lousy as I feel right now, I must say it was totally worth it.

(Though maybe we should think about meeting up more often throughout the year instead of cramming our getogethers into two weeks!)

I'll be spending today--the fifteenth and last day of the Chinese New Year--at home (and very likely in bed) but I fully intend to enjoy this downtime.

It's a real luxury to be able to take a couple of days off surrounded by books and food delivered by kind friends and neighbours and I'm very very grateful.

Happy a and wish you all a great new year.

Tuesday, September 10, 2024

The Three Harrys: Wizard Savers of Their Worlds

Ovidia--every other Tuesday
I'm pushing through reworking the (hopefully) final, submittable draft of the next book--already missed first deadline and it looks like I'm going to be missing the second…

but I want to work through all the new wonderful stuff that decided to come to me only now (always happens doesn’t it?)

And the Mid-Autumn Festival is round the corner, so as always in times of pressure I turn to words of wisdom to comfort me—not from Mother Mary but the three wizard Harrys who all impacted me while saving their worlds in their own unique ways: Harry Potter, the boy wizard; Harry Dresden, the professional wizard; and Harry Lee Kuan Yew, Singapore's socio-political wizard.
They are something I come back to whenever I need a charge up to keep on going. I discovered Harry Potter first.


I loved the magic and the message of Harry Potter for years! Yes, you can be a weird misfit but still the chosen one. You can find friends who become family. The monsters are real, and some of them are teachers and parent figures and in the government with power over you and you’re not imagining things, they really hate you and are out to get you…
But you can still make it through by not giving up.
I still love the Harry Potter world—even if the sad truth is that its creator seems to be turning into a Dolores Umbridge.
That helped me to leave Hogwarts behind along with my schooldays and come to Harry Dresden.

Harry Dresden: The Wizard Who Keeps Trying
Harry Dresden, a professional wizard in Chicago, is one of my favourite sleuths. Harry gets exhausted from overwork that pays poorly, doesn’t exercise enough, eats poorly, frequently has trouble with electronics and bills and his longest ongoing relationship is with Bob the talking skull…

This pretty much sums up a working writer’s life doesn’t it!



Harry Dresden has his personal issues, problems and (literal) demons, but he ends up trying to do his best despite feeling like the easiest thing would be to stay in bed. That’s where I am, much of the time—barely able to figure out what’s the right thing to do, let alone to summon up the energy to do it.

I also love Harry Dresden’s needing ‘energy’ to work his magic. This energy can be generated by lust, envy, rage or by joy, ecstasy and love—and the magic that emerges reflects the source of energy that fuelled it. I’ve found the same principle works when I’m trying to write or just live.
The material I absorb via reading, watching stuff online, interacting with people and dogs when I’m out or with my plants and human and animal companions at home all colour my thoughts and my writing.

Even though I feel more like Harry Dresden with his constant struggle to do good or just ‘do’, it’s Michael Carpenter, Dresden’s Knight friend who I envy. Michael, a true knight of faith who wields the holy sword Amoracchius, always acts with conviction. I have friends like that, and I envy them the same way… kind of.

Because Michael and his sword aren’t always right. And maybe a life lived without hesitation or doubt would be a little poorer. For what it’s worth, I’ll stick with Harry Dresden as a role model to keep me going. I don’t have a talking skull, but I do have these two munchkins that I discuss plot twists with.



And then there’s Harry Lee Kuan Yew, who wielded a different kind of magic—the magic of leadership.


Harry Lee Kuan Yew was, in many ways, the real-world wizard. He transformed Singapore from a small, struggling third world country into safe, stable first world nation. He made some tough, unpopular decisions with steely pragmatism, infamously saying, “Poetry is a luxury we cannot afford,” in the 60’s, when Singapore faced poverty, unemployment, racial tensions, and threats to our independence. Not the best role model for writers?

But once the slums were cleared, canals cleaned up and the people had safe drinking water he read poetry to his wife in her final years.

He did what needed to be done when it needed to be done. I owe it to the pioneering generation that I have access to my worlds of mystery and magic.

In the end, perhaps my biggest takeaway from all three is that the magic of creation often doesn’t look like magic when it’s in process. It looks like you’re plodding on hopelessly, endlessly, out of sheer stubbornness or stupidity. But then once you’ve brought all the right ingredients to the right place and infused it with the right energy, that’s when the magic happens. Good luck and Happy Mid-Autumn Festival everyone!

Monday, February 14, 2022

Light A New Lantern!

 Ovidia--Every Other Tuesday


Today, 15 February, is Yuan Xiao (元宵节 / yuán xiāo jié) the Lantern Festival, which marks the final day of the Chinese New Year celebrations. Light a new lantern and let it show you the way towards all the things you hope for this new year! (I don't have a lantern handy so I’ll be using a candle)

 After the lantern festival, the Chinese New Year starts in earnest as everyone goes back to work. Taboos are no longer in effect and the new year decorations can be taken down.

Some more traditional people wait till after the Lantern Festival to start on new work or life projects!

The lanterns also symbolise letting go of the past year, which is necessary to welcome good fortune into your new year. Legend has it that the Jade Emperor intended to destroy a village with fire on the fifteenth day of the lunar year. However, the Jade Emperor’s daughter warned the villagers in time and the enterprising villagers hung red lanterns all over the village to give the impression that it was already in flames… and the Jade Emperor was fooled and the villagers survived. 

The lesson? Fake it and you might make it, maybe? Anyway, celebrate surviving the night by making a new start.

It’s also a romantic time. In Ancient China, the Lantern Festival was the only time of year when women could mix freely with men with everyone going outdoors with lanterns to wish a year of good fortune on everyone else. 

Normally there are lanterns and celebrations all over. But Covid has taken its toll. 

And I don’t really feel like celebrating because Xiao Huang (literally ‘little yellow’, my Honda Jazz), is fifteen years old today and though she still runs fine, she’s run out of time.


In Singapore, having a valid COE (Certificate of Entitlement) is mandatory. It’s part of a quota system meant to price people out of cars and into public transport. The goal of the system is to limit vehicle sales. Every new car registered requires a COE so the LTA can control sales directly. If it allows 2,000 new vehicles to be sold this month, it’ll release 2,000 COEs.

These are the rates for now:




COE Category
CAT A

CAR UP TO 1600CC & 97KW
CAT B

CAR ABOVE 1600CC OR 97KW
Quota Premium
$60,761
$86,102
Change
$2,863
$4,101
Quota
542
550
Bids Received
819
865
PQP
$56,670 (Feb)
$80,583 (Feb)

And that's in addition to what you pay for the car!

Your first COE is valid for 10 years and then you can renew it for either 5 years or 10 years but never again. I (short-sightedly) picked 5 years, so it’s goodbye time.
I can understand the strictures. Despite our small size, there are nearly a million vehicles on Singapore roads this year—and our roads take up 12% of our total land area, a far higher percentage than most other countries.
But understanding doesn’t make it any easier to let Xiao Huang go.

When I got Xiao Huang, I was still having some difficulty walking after an accident, so a big plus was her spacious boot which easily contained my walking frame folded up, and I’d drive her with my walking stick by my side.
This little yellow car saw me through my recovery and my shift from writing plays to writing books. It was thanks to Xiao Huang that I could volunteer at the SPCA and that I came to adopt Princess and Hermione… and drive them to dog runs and dog cafes all over the island!


Hermione (on left) and Princess a couple of years back, exhausted after a day out at the dog park.

Xiao Huang was the faithful steed I took for granted throughout my 50’s. Now I’m 60 years old and I’ll be learning to use public transport again. Which isn’t a terrible thing—I’ve qualified for my Silver Passion card (discount travel pass) and it’s amazing how cheaply I can travel around now!



And there are other things to look forward to too. 
In the spirit of lighting a new lantern/ starting something new I hadn’t done before, I’ve started to take dance classes with some friends. We’ve known each other since we were six years old and as far as I can see, none of us has changed at all. But the first lesson brought it home (somewhat painfully) that our hopscotch days are far behind. We're far from swan-like at the moment, but we’ve signed on for a term and if I survive to write about it, I will!

(It’s a programme called Silver Swans)