Tuesday, August 1, 2023

A Wedding in the Family

 Ovidia--every other Tuesday

We celebrated a wedding in the family last weekend--my brother's sweet, smart, beautiful daughter is off to start married life in Edinburgh.

This was my first time visiting the Prinsep Street Presbyterian Church, which is one of Singapore’s oldest Presbyterian churches. 


It was founded by Rev. Benjamin Keasberry, a missionary sent out by the London Missionary Society to Singapore in 1837. Keasberry's 'target' audience was the Malay community. Back in the colonial days, this was considered acceptable.

This is a bit more complicated than it sounds, because according to the British in Singapore, to be Malay is to be Muslim. What, then, is a Malay who is not Muslim? According (again) to the British, they were 'Native Christians' (regardless of their personal beliefs). 

Fortunately this term is no longer used. 

Keasberry preached in Malay at the Little Malay Mission Chapel or 'Greja Keasberry' ('Keasberry Church in Malay).  In time, these services attracted not only Malays but also Peranakans (Malay speaking Straits born Chinese).


The English Presbyterian Mission acquired the Little Malay Chapel in 1886 and renamed the chapel the Straits Chinese Church, then the Straits Chinese Presbyterian Church.

And since services were no longer conducted in Malay, the church was renamed the Prinsep Street Presbyterian Church.


In recent years I've not spent much time in church, but I was surprised that the pastor officiating the ceremony chose to evoke at length the unhappy union of Thomas Carlyle and his wife when talking about the coming marriage--


(Remember Samuel Butler's "It was very good of God to let Carlyle and Mrs. Carlyle marry one another, and so make only two people miserable and not four,"? Maybe it's better not to.)

I hope it was the merely the Scottish connection or a passion for Thomas Carlyle that prompted that!

But I'll wish them well and say no more.





7 comments:

  1. It's still surprising how incredibly certain the colonial powers were about everything!

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  2. Well... thanks to them I'm speaking English and I can drink water straight out of the tap so they did a couple of things right!

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    1. Agreed. I have travelled the East and West of the US and London and Paris on my own. Because I speak English. And Not looking forward to academics argument about colonialism and the Anglo-Dutch Treaty of 1824 next year, its 200th year.

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  3. Thank you so much for educating me about the church and its history. And in terms of invoking Carlyle and his wife, don't know whether to laugh or cry!

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    1. Thank you Wendall--always better to laugh I find!

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  4. I agree with Wendall. What the minister did was nasty, in my opinion. His job was to administer the sacrament, not to give a history lesson or indulge himself by telling a poorly timed story. I hope the bride and groom will be able to tell it as a joke when they are older.

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    1. I hope so too, thank you! I think it's more (or would so like to believe) incompetence than nastiness but... anyway things can only get better for them from here, right?

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